Significant Quote

"Love is the greatest feeling you will ever have, yet it is also one of the greatest sorrows. There is so much suffering, but then there are times when the crying, pain, and heartache is worth it. Those moments are perfect, they are right. Those moments make all the suffering worth while. It's those moments we should live for." -Unknown-

I was roaming the web and found this quote online, which to me symbolizes the ups and downs of my current relationship.  For months I have been going back and forth with my significant other about trivial and drastic things that have either put a hold on our relationship or put one person in a position to question its longetivity.  It's very difficult to sustain a relationship when both parties are stubborn and see their faults to be correct. It becomes frustrating to argue over the same issues over and over again, but when you really sit down to think about the disputes you realize that without these arguments a relationship would not be worth while.

Arguments are healthy and are supposed to question your role in a relationship.  An argument dictates your future with your significant other.  If you two are unable to surpass the issues set before you and can't find grounds to cultivate a solution then clearly you two are not strong enough to be together.  Relationships are a mixture of all kinds of emotions that come with the good and bad.  The problems you go through make the great moments spent together feel indescribable and perfect.

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  Even if you agree to disagree, people are not all the same and will continue to bump heads.  However, when you truly love someone all the bickering begins to signify the hardship, the work ethic, and sincerity to maintain that relationship. Besides when arguments arise it is because you care too much for that person that your feelings can't be expressed in words.  You become jealous, eager, and possessive, but this is not to say that this is bad thing.  It just comes with the baggage.