Every relationship has a honey moon stage, which usually occurs during the first few weeks or months of being in that "special" person's presence. It's defined by the instant gratification of security, the arousal of new feelings that seem unbearable (in a good way of course) and the satisfaction of possibly finding someone that you feel compatible with. During this stage your vulnerable like a deer in the headlights. You see no flaws and are distracted by all the wonders that are presented to you. You feel powerless and every moment is spent thinking about that person, wondering what they might be doing and if their thinking about you too...you know the little cute stuff.
You try so hard to impress them and hope that they don't pick out on your bad habits. Most importantly you go out your way to be in tip top shape because you suspect that if you slip up they might just not want you anymore. When it comes to your friends, you're always in a graceful mood which leaves them to question you about the mysterious person that has swayed you off your feet.
The honeymoon stage is the ultimate dream, the definition of the perfect relationship. When it's over you question what happened and if your actions dictated the u-turn. However, as you try to find the answers its important to realize that all good things come to an end. You become comfortable in your relationship and most things you do to satisfy your partner you realize you no longer have to do. Your emotions flip and you seek to find different ways to spice up your relationship OR you may lose the passion and the drive to want to sustain the relationship. You may feel like the demands of being with that person is more than you can bare, but whatever it is you live and move on despite the end result.
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